And so I came to a more modern and positive form of Deism, and it
fits. Constructive Deism is affirming and uplifting in comparison. Now I am more involved in Deism than I ever was in my former
religion. I believe what I believe because what I believe now makes
sense. I am not trying to believe what someone else thinks I should
believe. I seek no one's approval. I meet my own expectations. I am my
own person.
I became a Deist after 26 years as a Christian in the
United Church of Christ (UCC) tradition. My parents
brought me to Sunday school pretty regularly when I was
younger, and thereafter, I would attend church mostly
just for Easter and Christmas. I always felt awkward in
church, because while the bible stories contained some
good nuggets of wisdom, I couldn't ever truly bring
myself to really, truly believe what was being said,
especially the stories regarding how Christians believe
Jesus was born and resurrected. I started going to
church on and off again in 2008, mainly for comfort and
fellowship in bad times, and continued to call myself a
Christian just by default.
For some reason, just a few years ago, I was reluctant
to look into other religions to see if any of them were
more closely aligned with my beliefs. This is probably
because I feared what my family would think. By the way,
after letting them know I'm a Deist, they don't seem to
have a problem with it. And if they did, I wouldn't
care, because a religion is one's own personal choice.
No one should pressure you, for the sake of tradition or
otherwise, into believing something you don't believe.
If anyone tries to scare you into staying in
Christianity (like a family member or friend saying they
are afraid you won't get into Heaven, or you might go to
Hell), don't give in to the fear. Those are their
beliefs and they don't have to be yours too. Sit down
and take a look at what you really believe to be true,
knowing what you know about the properties of how the
world works. Then take a look at all of the religions of
the world that you can find information on until you
find a good match for you.